This is just the sex parts of my European trip report. For the rest of the report from this day, click here.
Since there was another party I wanted to go to that night, I headed back to Schöneberg. On the way, I passed by the gay sunbathing areas of Tiergarten. Apparently nude sunbathing is permitted! I also met a cute Italian boy, Kurt — no, he wasn’t naked at the time — dressed in A&F gear with his collar turned up.
Kurt gave me a heavy cruise in Tiergarten, so I sat down on a bench and got him to approach. Cute, but in his A&F attire, I figured him for a bit of a twinkie. (He says A&F is pretty much only worn by gay boys in Germany. I told him that’s true in the States, too, even if those wearing it don’t quite realize it!) I offered to invite him back to the hotel, but said he might be scared. To the contrary, he said it was the red stripes on my shorts that he was attracted by. And on that note, I had one of the best fisiting experiences of the trip, one that we had to cut short because he was meeting a friend at a local bar. I would have happily skipped the party that night to play a few hours more with Kurt.
I took the U-Bann out to Prenzlauer Berg, to the bar Stahlrohr 2.0. (2.0 because it had moved a few years back.) Several of the guys from the Kellerloch party were there again.
The Stahlrohr party was, of course, a fisting party. Walking from the U-Bann, I met and talked with Matthieu (I’m doing my best guess for the spelling of some of these guys’ names, you realize), who spotted my black and red leather wristband. Joachen, who had invited me to Kellerloch, fisted me, although I don’t think he got all the way in. My ass was getting tender! I was making lots of animal noises, though, and a bunch of guys stuck their heads around the corner to see who this new guy was whose voice they didn’t recognize. I then talked for a while with Sebastien, and Marcel and I had a rematch of the previous night, well, of the part with my hand up his ass.
One pleasant surprise I’ve had this trip is the simple willingness of Europeans to engage in safer sex behaviors. In the States, you find way too many guys who not only like to bareback, they will only do so. You find ones (often enough to not be rare!) who will call things off if you want a condom to be used (whether as top or bottom), and occasionally ones who will actually be angry with you for wanting safer sex. (And this almost never has to do with latex allergies.) Seemingly not so with the Europeans; only a couple even tried any barebacking (including one in a dark room in Amsterdam whom I pushed away, disgusted; he might not have been European, in retrospect), and not a one made a peep at pausing to put on a rubber.
Actually, though, I didn’t do a whole lot of pursuit of fucking, and much of that was in fisting party contexts, so maybe this is the mark of fisters more than general Europeans. While many prefer to play without gloves (and I could go into the pros and cons of that), it was always a negotiated part of each play session, and none I played with would say no to using gloves or having the top use them. As I think of it in the States, at the big parties I have been to in Seattle, DC, and Chicago, I do think that this is more a standard behavior of fisters worldwide, perhaps. But I’ll still think positively of the Europeans in this light, regardless.
Updated on February 23, 2010
Updated on May 18, 2010