tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2271108414078193171.post5808004784678806765..comments2022-03-01T20:43:46.837-08:00Comments on Sounds Kinky-er: Save me from “discreet” encountersJim Drewhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00987446462436563788noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2271108414078193171.post-74081554669215499262011-07-06T10:15:08.732-07:002011-07-06T10:15:08.732-07:00In the pre-internet days of 25 years ago, I rememb...In the pre-internet days of 25 years ago, I remember one fellow who I met at a gay bar when I lived in Buffalo NY, in the winter.<br /><br />For one thing, just from the cold weather, guys would want to literally sleep together!<br /><br />While we were having breakfast at my place, the next morning, he blurted out "I hope you realize that Michael is not my real name"<br /><br />And he stuttered as he explains that he "has to" protect his identity, since he is in a local business that his parents own, and in a "sensitive" position.<br /><br />He later explained that his family owned 2 butcher shops... something that was quite common in Buffalo in the 1980s.<br /><br />And he was so fearful that "knowing him" and using his real first name would destroy his job, and shut down his parents business!<br /><br />On the other hand, I was not hiding my name, nor which bank I worked for. In fact, I never hesitated to hand out my business card to people. And I was running a 10 person department, all on my own, without any family support.<br /><br />So which one of us had more to lose if we were "outted"?TetheredLeatheredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17771372414175754244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2271108414078193171.post-67898120188102867192011-07-06T10:08:33.276-07:002011-07-06T10:08:33.276-07:00Playing only with visitors to Minneapolis?
That s...Playing only with visitors to Minneapolis?<br /><br />That sounds like a certain retired politician from Idaho!TetheredLeatheredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17771372414175754244noreply@blogger.com